Bridesman

To receive one of the sacraments of vocation makes for an unforgettable day. Lately I have been able to witness many friends undergo the transformation of Matrimony or Holy Orders and celebrate with them. Their lives will never be the same.

On Thursday at Mount Angel, 17 seminarians were admitted as official candidates for Holy Orders, meaning they are on track to become transitional deacons on their way to the priesthood. Archbishop Sample heard these brothers make their commitments verbally in front of the gathered community, including many visiting vocations directors and bishops, and he blessed their continued journey. I was in the choir loft at the back of the long Abbey Church, but I did manage to snap a couple photos. Seeing so many priests in one place makes me grateful for the sacrifices they make to be Christ and bring the Eucharist to the people each day.

Last weekend I flew to Boise for the wedding of Derek and Kayla. Kayla and I grew up at St. John's Cathedral, went to Seattle Pacific University, volunteered together at multiple parishes, and have shared in friendship for over a decade. A few months ago she asked me to be in the wedding with one catch: That I give some thought to being on her side of the aisle. I agreed with trepidation, but I felt more at ease when she said Derek's sister would be on his side. So this was my first (and likely only) time acting as a "Bridesman." Derek's sister served as a "Groomsmaid." I even have an engraved flask to commemorate the occasion. The dancing was rowdy, the food was tasty, and the celebration was worthy of two lovers rejoicing in their sacramental union. I was glad to take part. Her marriage to Derek is a beautiful culmination of young adulthood. Now she is equipped with a Master's of Social Work from the University of Washington, a new job in her field, and a triathlete husband who adores her. 

Finally, yesterday in absence I celebrated with the six permanent deacons ordained for the Diocese of Boise, two of whom I know well enough to congratulate: Deacon Mac Chester and Deacon Clyde Brinegar. They are principled, humorous, caring, and abiding individuals who will serve their parishes and the greater community well.

May you invite the Holy Spirit into your journey at each step, my friends. Congratulations and thank you for allowing me to share in your joy.